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Don't Blame Ronald

05/27/2011 Categories: Family Friday
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By Chrissy Bernal

ronald mcdonaldLiterally as I sat down to compile my thoughts on Corporate Accountability International’s (CAI) demand that Ronald McDonald be removed as the McDonald’s icon, I was able to catch a portion of a television special called Inside the McDonald’s Empire.

I found it intriguing, but it also fanned my frustrations.  I couldn’t believe that after all the hoopla about McDonald’s removing the toys, they were now being attacked for their icon—an icon that critics say markets towards children.

What happened to parent responsibility? What happened to education?  Why have parents gotten so lazy that they feel that eating out of a window is the only option?  Don’t say “because parents are busy”.  We already know my thoughts on that excuse.

It seems, to me, that too many parents nowadays are looking for someone to blame for how their children are turning out.  Wake up! 

When I was a kid, I remember enjoying McDonald’s.  I loved the play area, the hamburgers, the ice cream, and of course, the toys.  However, I was raised that moderation is the key.   I’ve passed that on to my own children.  They know that a hamburger every once in a while isn’t going to kill them, but that it’s important to eat healthy meals a majority of the time.

One woman being interviewed on the television special said, “He [her son] will scream ‘McDonald’s, McDonald’s!’ and won’t stop until we agree to go to McDonald’s.”  She said they eat there at least two times a week.  Excuse me?!  I wanted to jump through the television and scream, “Who runs your household?”

Just like every other child in America, my children are bombarded with the television commercials, fun packaging and vibrant billboards of candy bars, fast food joints and every child’s dream eateries like Chuckie Cheese’s and IT’Z Pizza.  However, you will find my children getting large portions of salad at that salad bar along with their pizza when visiting those pizza buffet fun lands.  They know that keeping it balanced is important.  Quite honestly, my children have been raised so that their pallets actually appreciate wholesome foods and they actually enjoy salads and vegetables.

Instead of attacking McDonald’s for marketing to children, CAI needs to launch a campaign to educate parents.  If parents stop taking their children to unhealthy places, those places will be forced to adapt.

Saying that Ronald is to blame for obesity is to say that we are such weak people that we can’t help but fall under his hypnosis.  We are stronger than that! Parents, take responsibility for teaching your children how to live in moderation—how to indulge without over doing it. 

If parents feel like they don’t know how to offer their children other options, learn from someone who does. 

  • Higher a nutritional counselor.
  • Find local seminars at churches or colleges that offer advice on teaching your family healthy, balanced ways of eating.
  • Read Simply Cy-Fair’s own Health Tip Tuesdays blog.
  • Visit your local library and pick up some healthy cookbooks like Eating For Life or books similar to Eat This Not That
  • Subscribe to magazines such as Clean Eating and Eating Well.
  • “Follow” or “Like” people and companies that can offer you advise.  Some of my favorites are http://jen-fit-training.blogspot.com and http://greenlitebites.com.

The information is out there.  It’s not Ronald’s fault.  We are responsible for how our children eat, how they learn to find balance, how they look at food and whether or not they will understand that they have the ability to control their decisions.

Do you agree?

re: Don't Blame Ronald

05/27/2011 April P.
I couldn't agree more, Chrissy and Shara! I have dealt with this in my own family because people were too lazy to parent and say no to their kids. When you ask my kids what their favorite food is, the list starts with a vegetable. I am the last person you can convince that kids won't eat healthy food. When that's what they are offered on a consistent basis, that's what they'll eat. The occasional treat won't hurt, but that's what it should be called and offered as...a treat. Thanks for this article! Good parenting is tough but SO worth it in the end!

re: Don't Blame Ronald

05/27/2011 Angela

LOL Shara. I KNEW you'd love this post! :) I know Chrissy will appreciate your comments too. :)

Thanks!

Angela, Simply Cy-Fair publisher

re: Don't Blame Ronald

05/27/2011 Shara

Yep - I completely agree. My parents had 4 girls, my mom cleaned homes for a living and then worked in a school for children who have special needs. My father was a full-time minister/missionary and he also taught school classes at the school now and again.

My parents were busy. However, they taught us to eat healthy foods and allowed us to indulge every so often. We had "junk food night" every Friday with a movie. We only had soda around for holidays. I grew up in Australia where sweets were kept for special moments and not every home had candy bowls full of treats in every room. When we moved to America I was stunned to find so many homes filled with candy, full candy bars, soda pop and more.

Just last week, someone told me that her mother can't help the fact that she is obese. "My mom says she has a disease that makes her fat" this young gal told me. Okay. Fair enough. "What's the disease?" I  asked. "I don't know" she replied. A while later I asked this gal what her family eats for dinner. She said, "Well, my parents get free food but usually they spend that money on candy, cakes, chips and so on. We don't usually get meat or things like that. Unless we go to McDonalds for a healthier dinner."

Oh. Okay, then. Is that the disease of which you speak?

Stupid decision making skills?

Got it.

So, yes! By all means...let's focus more on parent education (which is what I do every Tuesday night when I volunteer). It doesn't always help, though. Many parents want to continue feeding their kids garbage foods because it's easy and doesn't require that they learn any cooking skills.

Which is also why I work with some of the kids in our town, Mentoring them, and teaching them to use raw foods and fresh foods to cook. They need to learn so this cycle will stop. If their own parents won't teach them to cook healthy foods, some one has to, eh?

Hmm. How cool would it be to get a community cooking class in every town where kids could come and learn to cook healthy meals?

I love that guy I saw on Larry King a while back. Some young man who says that as long as people can learn to cook just TEN healthy things, they can rotate between those items and stay healthier. This guy is from the UK, I think. I really like that a male is telling folks to cook. So it's not about being a woman or about being 'stuck in the kitchen' like some folks think. It's about being SMART and HEALTHY. Whatever your sex is.

If more parents would learn to cook a few healthy meals, and pass that skill on to their kids, our entire nation would be better of, yes. Not the mention lower costs on the health insurance industry...

Ronald's fault? How silly. Please. He's a giant painted statue. If you can't say no to HIM, Lord help you.

{I bet you regret showing me this article now, Angela!! LOL}

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